Knowing what you want!

Every choice and every decision you make, is either made blindly or consciously.

To make a conscious choice you have to know exactly what you want.

This is the basis for transforming anything I your life, 

Write down exactly what you want to have that you currently don't have. Until YOU know and understand what it is that you truly want, the energy cannot and will not move in your direction.

On the other hand you may experience the  blue yellow green theory. Which is you think about having blue and then you imagine yellow, later you find green is showing up and you say yo never asked for green, but in reality when you asked for both blue and yellow the universe delivered them at the same time as green (which is the 2 colors combined)

The Wrench

This is a story about tools and intimacy.

As men we are wired for conquering and being a hero. We try to impress women with our power and charm. Often as men we try to be romantic by displaying our power.  We might drive an expensive car, or take her to a fancy restaurant in order to win her affection. 

Jack was a capable man and like many other men, he did his best as a man to provide romance and intimacy for his girlfriend. Which is why he was deeply impacted recently by a simple act of love. He shared this story with me about a new way of being in his role. 

Jack was handy with tools, and was able to fix things around the house and never considered his work to be sexual. So when he finished a recent plumbing job tightening the faucet in the bathroom, he found a surprise. When he walked out into the bedroom carrying his wrench, he found his girlfriend wearing only a smile. 

Although very delighted Jack was curious as to what caused her to be so inspired. 

His girlfriend shared with him that a man with a wrench is very sexy. Particularly a man who knows how to use a wrench, and fixes things without being asked to, without having to be reminded over and over. A man should simply take charge and take care of things because it is how he lives every day. This is what turns a woman on. The man who uses his power to take care of the things that make his woman’s home nicer, and is making her life easier. 

She considers this manly behavior, and this is a way of “sweeping her off of her feet” over and over again.

The moral of the story is this. Don't be the “wus” she has to nag. If she is acting like your mother, it is your own fault.

Take care of your woman by finding out what she needs from you, and do that, rather than trying to impress her with your “resume” or charm. Even more important, is that you are conscious and aware of your actions at all times, ensuring that her needs are being cared for, even the seemingly small ones. Once she can truly real in your care, her feminine gifts will open up to you!

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Finding Love -

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 Many are looking for the secret to finding true Love, their Soulmate or perhaps just to not be hurt again by what they experienced in the past -

Here are some pearls of wisdom I have gathered and I am sharing with you ...


 From the Course in Miracles

It is not your job to seek for Love but to remove the barriers against its coming

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Our romantic desires should not be separated from our spirituality; such disconnection does not foster love, but actually keeps it at bay

Thoughts for today

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No amount of self improvement can make up for lack of self acceptance

Self acceptance begins by seeing yourself through the eyes of love

You will have no idea who you are as long as you judge yourself

You cannot hold people hostage for what they Cannot give you

Flaws

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Flaws

“Flaws are just projected fears… I used to create fear by comparing myself to others, my younger past, and my not-yet-manifested greatness. I have learned that if we feel internally imprisoned, no amount of money or outside praise will ever make us feel free. So shatter what no longer matters, get into your glory, share your story and your true colors. True success lives in how we perceive ourselves.” – Renee Airya

The Nature of Difficulties

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Most difficulties particularly with a partner are based on differences of perceptions. Perceptions are based on beliefs. These beliefs are mostly subconscious, therefore trying to resolve differences by talking to someone is rarely successful, especially if you have opposing beliefs, think about a Christian and a Muslim trying to convince each other that theirs is the most correct religion.

Finding common ground, being open and willing to consider that the other person has beliefs that are just as real and powerful to them, opens the energy for compromise.

Since your beliefs are mostly subconscious learning how to be aware of them and learning to change them can be difficult. There are many tools, programs, and various websites that will sell you the answers all day long, that promise to assist you in solving your problems and making your pain go away.

I will tell you that some of them may be helpful in some cases, but in reality it is you yourself that has to change and only you can decide to do that. Unless and until you work on yourself and your inner, subconscious beliefs, paradigms and old patterns you will get the same results no matter what you change in your outer world.

As in most of my teaching I refer to dancing, and it was that process that helped me understand how to be a better person. To learn to dance I had to find a good teacher, pay for lessons and then practice, and I have used that same process to change my inner world, learn how to help others, learn how to be a good partner, and how to change my beliefs. When I don't know how to do something I find a teacher, learn from them and then practice. And a lot of practice may be required. This is where most people give up.

Having a great coach is the best option available. Much like in a sport the players would not push themselves, or practice if the coach does not motivate and inspire them, That is his job. The nature of this work challenges most people and can be very difficult to achieve any degree of success if you try it alone. Even having a like minded friend can assist greatly in this work.

I am currently putting together a program that will enable small groups that would facilitate helping each other in a very powerful and meaningful way.

For now if you are struggling, or want to change your life go to my website -

www.craigtees.com

sign up for my free booklet and get started in your journey,


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