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Problems - quite fascinating things. They keep you up at night, cause havoc in your life and generally make life difficult.
So what do you do with them?
Here are some truths about problems and their solutions -
1. You cannot get rid of a problem until you get rid of what is causing it, and that is a quandry in and of itself. So step back from the problem and look at the big picture view in order to see the entire problem.
2. You cannot take part of the problem and move it out of the equation to somewhere else, if you do the solution to the problem is no longer available.
We all do this and sometimes feel we have solved the problem because we have solved one part of it. Much like an algebraic equation you have only solved what is between one set of brackets, in order to solve the entire problem you have to complete the entire equation.
So how do you solve the problem of having problems?
1, Accept there will always be problems, it is how we learn to navigate through life.
2. If the answer is not apparent -(which by the way is true in ever case, because if you had the answer you no longer have a problem) then you have to work on getting the entire problem, step back and see if you can find the source first, rather than blaming someone else for the problem.
3. get some help - much like algebra, calculus, geometry and physics, we all had to learn from someone that understood the process of solving those equations. Find someone that is experienced in solving problems and can help you see and resolve yours.
4. Sometimes you are simply faced with a dilemma that can be a problem in and of itself or is simply requires a firm decision to resolve - here is one of my simple problem/dilemma solutions - ask your self these questions
A. is this going to help me or hurt me?
B. Will this move me closer to my goal or further away?
I am a Certified Master Life Coach, NLP Practitioner and can help you resolve what you are struggling with.
If you would like assistance with Your situation click the link below
Solve Your Problems
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Monday, April 23, 2012
Sunday, April 22, 2012
Diagnosed with incurable Cancer 10 Years ago
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Here is Amazing story from a woman that was diagnosed with cancer 10 years ago and what she did to change her life.
We often have a tendency to ignore
our deepest fears.
We're innately programmed to avert these
fears, ignore them, push them down.
The problem, however, is that when we
do that they don't go away or play less
of a role in our lives.
If anything, they play a bigger, and
oftentimes more unconscious role.
The good news is that you can finally
do something about these fears.
Watch this video with NY Times
bestselling author Kris Carr as
she shares some of her deepest
fears and what she did to overcome
them:
Tapping Solutions
.
Here is Amazing story from a woman that was diagnosed with cancer 10 years ago and what she did to change her life.
We often have a tendency to ignore
our deepest fears.
We're innately programmed to avert these
fears, ignore them, push them down.
The problem, however, is that when we
do that they don't go away or play less
of a role in our lives.
If anything, they play a bigger, and
oftentimes more unconscious role.
The good news is that you can finally
do something about these fears.
Watch this video with NY Times
bestselling author Kris Carr as
she shares some of her deepest
fears and what she did to overcome
them:
Tapping Solutions
.
Transformation and Finding the Divine
Wow quite a while since my last entry, but I have been deep in transition. So let me explain. What I will share here with you is beyond any price therefore I have chosen to simply share it with everyone. If you should choose to use it yourself, there may be times when you need assistance, support or additional understanding. For that you can contact me for coaching sessions at the link shown on the bottom of this article.
As any of you that have read previous posts know I have done considerable work and studies around spiritual issues and changing my life. The result is that I found myself still stuck in the same patterns and having the same results. So I shifted my focus from learning to understanding, I asked for clarity regarding what I was missing, what I needed to see and understand,
As I sat quietly it came, in a collage of events, by emails, guidance from my higher self and processes from a program I purchased.
I had sworn off purchasing any more programs, as I have an extensive library of information, programs and processes that covers every aspect of spiritual transformation and growth. So I decided that buying more was not going to be helpful to me. So why did I still purchase this program? As I asked for guidance and understanding I also had to learn to listen to what I am guided to do,
You see one of the aspects of transformation energy is that there are times when you are required to take action This was one of those times. As my mind was saying no more programs, my soul said you need this. Therefore I took action and it changed my life.
I discovered a profound series of intertwined links between my beliefs, childhood conditioning, guilt and fear as well as my self worth.
It also involves the understanding of the morphogenic field which I will explain.
it also involves going beyond knowing this information and actually making it work for you,
Due to the complexity of understanding this change I have to break it down into individual modules.
First and foremost you have to make this the absolute most important thing in your life, what I mean by that is simply this -
It requires you to have the desire to do this because it is important and meaningful to you, not because I told you it is important or because you think it will get you something.
For instance - in a relationship - if one partner does something for the other knowing it is meaningful to that person, it conveys a sense of caring, but sometimes there is a tiny bit of resentment or resistance. What that conveys is a lack of connection, and although it is never communicated in words it is communicated energetically. And that form of communication cannot be distorted, your partner will know immediately and feel that energy.
on the other hand if you decided to make it of great importance to you, to do that, because giving that to your partner is meaningful to your connection with them, and you want to be able to convey that to them, everything changes in regard to your ability to connect and the energy that you share.
Applying this to transformation - you have to employ the same aspect to your commitment and energy connection to your self and to transforming your life.
The morphogenic field is simply the energy that is all around us and connects us all together.
We all know and understand this mentally, and in actuality experience it all of the time. Understanding that what you think and feel travels out on this energetic network and reflects back you everything you think and feel. Fortunately it does not not respond in real time. By that I mean when you think something it does not always happen instantly, this is for our own protection.
A child has to learn how to use things like silverware, to learn to use math and other skills. The same with driving a car, or dancing, someone that is knowledgeable has to teach us.
the same with this field, knowing it exists does not teach you to use it correctly. As the movie “THE Secret” it explained the concept, but did not really explain what is required to make it work all of the time.
Your Guilt and Fear are the greatest detriments to managing this network of energy.
Once you know the power of this Amazing gift, you then have to learn how to release past conditioning.
3. As a child we were all conditioned in certain ways many of which involved guilt and fear. This is a very complex and challenging part of transformation, again understanding what it is and how to change it will accelerate your ability to manifest what you want.
This may require a trained counselor, but many have found that using the Emotional Freedom Technique is a very powerful tool for this work. -
click here for more info -
Tapping Solution
4. Along with this another element is knowing what you love to do.. and literally hurling yourself into it. Making it your primary focus every day!
So this is a lot of information and I will continue to expand on it in the next few days,
In the Meantime you can check this out - -
Soul Coach
.
As any of you that have read previous posts know I have done considerable work and studies around spiritual issues and changing my life. The result is that I found myself still stuck in the same patterns and having the same results. So I shifted my focus from learning to understanding, I asked for clarity regarding what I was missing, what I needed to see and understand,
As I sat quietly it came, in a collage of events, by emails, guidance from my higher self and processes from a program I purchased.
I had sworn off purchasing any more programs, as I have an extensive library of information, programs and processes that covers every aspect of spiritual transformation and growth. So I decided that buying more was not going to be helpful to me. So why did I still purchase this program? As I asked for guidance and understanding I also had to learn to listen to what I am guided to do,
You see one of the aspects of transformation energy is that there are times when you are required to take action This was one of those times. As my mind was saying no more programs, my soul said you need this. Therefore I took action and it changed my life.
I discovered a profound series of intertwined links between my beliefs, childhood conditioning, guilt and fear as well as my self worth.
It also involves the understanding of the morphogenic field which I will explain.
it also involves going beyond knowing this information and actually making it work for you,
Due to the complexity of understanding this change I have to break it down into individual modules.
First and foremost you have to make this the absolute most important thing in your life, what I mean by that is simply this -
It requires you to have the desire to do this because it is important and meaningful to you, not because I told you it is important or because you think it will get you something.
For instance - in a relationship - if one partner does something for the other knowing it is meaningful to that person, it conveys a sense of caring, but sometimes there is a tiny bit of resentment or resistance. What that conveys is a lack of connection, and although it is never communicated in words it is communicated energetically. And that form of communication cannot be distorted, your partner will know immediately and feel that energy.
on the other hand if you decided to make it of great importance to you, to do that, because giving that to your partner is meaningful to your connection with them, and you want to be able to convey that to them, everything changes in regard to your ability to connect and the energy that you share.
Applying this to transformation - you have to employ the same aspect to your commitment and energy connection to your self and to transforming your life.
The morphogenic field is simply the energy that is all around us and connects us all together.
We all know and understand this mentally, and in actuality experience it all of the time. Understanding that what you think and feel travels out on this energetic network and reflects back you everything you think and feel. Fortunately it does not not respond in real time. By that I mean when you think something it does not always happen instantly, this is for our own protection.
A child has to learn how to use things like silverware, to learn to use math and other skills. The same with driving a car, or dancing, someone that is knowledgeable has to teach us.
the same with this field, knowing it exists does not teach you to use it correctly. As the movie “THE Secret” it explained the concept, but did not really explain what is required to make it work all of the time.
Your Guilt and Fear are the greatest detriments to managing this network of energy.
Once you know the power of this Amazing gift, you then have to learn how to release past conditioning.
3. As a child we were all conditioned in certain ways many of which involved guilt and fear. This is a very complex and challenging part of transformation, again understanding what it is and how to change it will accelerate your ability to manifest what you want.
This may require a trained counselor, but many have found that using the Emotional Freedom Technique is a very powerful tool for this work. -
click here for more info -
Tapping Solution
4. Along with this another element is knowing what you love to do.. and literally hurling yourself into it. Making it your primary focus every day!
So this is a lot of information and I will continue to expand on it in the next few days,
In the Meantime you can check this out - -
Soul Coach
.
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