Thursday, August 21, 2008

Circles of Change

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Today is about circles… and how which one you are in affects your life, and how creating new ones, or changing your current ones, will help you and others. Dont let those around you tell you it cannot be done, it has been proven otherwise by many, today is your turn to step into the circle of success.


From Joe Vitale -

If someone has a circle of friends that keeps them feeling that they can’t have much more in their lives, they won’t attempt to have any more.

For example, when I was in college, most of my friends felt the only way to increase their income was to get a better job. Everyone I talked to felt the same way.

That’s because my circle was thinking the same way. We all believed the same thing. We supported each other in being stuck.

In my forthcoming audio program, The Awakening Course, I explain that most people are in the first stage of life: victimhood.

They feel stuck, they attract people that feel the same way, and so the state of being a victim continues. It’s simply reinforced.

For example, I saw an old friend in Ohio. He told me he could never have the life I have. When I asked why, he basically said it wasn’t possible for him.

Now, I could talk to him for hours about new realities and new possibilities if he just read The Attractor Factor or watched the movie The Secret and learned more about the Law of Attraction.

But when I left, he would turn to his current family and friends, or to his coworkers, ask them what they think, and they would reinforce his original belief that it wasn’t possible for him.
He would then shrug his shoulders and say, “See? It isn’t possible for me.”

You can change, of course.

End Quote – for full story click here

http://blog.mrfire.com/loa/circles-of-support/



Here is another group that is eliminating poverty by changing the circle of influence,

http://www.movethemountain.org/circlescampaign.aspx

As I have said many times, in order to change your life you have to have a positive support group of like minded people, if you can’t find one, start one. Even if it is only one other person, having a supportive, positive person who believes and supports the changes you are making will have a dynamic and powerful affect on your life. If you are having difficulty finding someone or connecting to someone, then perhaps a good coach is what you need.

Feel free to contact me soulcoachyms@gmail.com.

Its time to change, the circle is here, it’s up to you to find a new circle. Together we can make a difference.

Monday, August 18, 2008

Ending Depression

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Depression - One of the most debilitating and deadly diseases known to man and yet it is largely mistreated and rarely cured.

First let me begin by telling my story, perhaps it will validate the statements that I make, and this is the short version, I am working on a full workup on this subject that will available soon.

I know about depression first hand, having spent a great deal of my life being depressed. It is rampant in my family, and I was told by many people I needed to get some help, and yet never did.(Denial is also an integral part of depression). So that in and of itself is the first hurdle to overcome. But let’s get back to the story,

I have had many black and dark days where I felt hopeless and unable to “DO” anything to change my circumstances. Until I finally decided to escape what I thought was causing my problem. I ended my relationship with a woman who seemed to be all that I had wanted in my life. Several weeks after I left, my world imploded. All I could see and feel was the darkness of loss and my pain. Time no longer mattered, life no longer mattered.

My mind spiraled deeper into the abyss, until finally I found myself trying to decide whether to use my gun, or tying a trash bag over my head, as the solution. In desperation and by some divine intervention and assistance, I called out for help. I tried a variety of solutions, some of them were a bit unorthodox, from contacting online psychics, to calling the suicide hotline, meditation, and alcohol. I also called my brother, who drove a considerable distance to be there for me, as he had dealt with this problem for many years as well, and with his support I finally decided I needed to get on medication.

I made my appointment with the doctor to get some drugs, and started immediately. Medication made matters worse, all I wanted to do was sleep, and my mind felt like I was swimming in mud. So I quit taking any drugs. I had to find another way, I had to solve this without the drugs or other forms of mind altering substances.

Finally, after repeated sad, painful and scary days and nights in this state, I found the answer. It didn’t require drugs, or therapy or killing myself. It required getting control of what was causing the depression in the first place, My Mind.

I resolved my Depression in one weekend and it has never had power over me since. Does it still exsist? In reality - NO. Do I experience the feelings? Ocassionally, but now I understand the message and know how to read it and it has no power to affect me.

Ok – I understand if you are reading this and find it a little difficult to believe, but if you want to end your depression, stay with me. I felt the same way.

Also, I am not saying therapy is useless or unnecessary, it is essential to have support and guidance, as it is almost impossible for the average person to do this alone. So you will need to have someone that is trained to help you. What is more important is finding someone that can actually help you resolve this issue and will support you applying what I am sharing with you.

The Answer –

It is important that you understand that FEELINGS good or bad, physical or mental are FEELINGS ONLY, nothing else. You can call them SIGNALS or MESSAGES from a friend trying to help you.

They are not the CAUSE of your pain or pleasure, they are only INFORMING you how you FEEL at the moment. When you understand this a completely new path opens up for you to take control over how you feel.

A FEELING brings you a MESSAGE, an INSTRUCTION describing how you should deal with this feeling.

Depression is a feeling, it is a message that something is affecting you. It is your job to find out what that is, and change what you are thinking about it. Then your feelings change.

I have done a lot of work on the spiritual aspects of life, energy, the Law of Attraction and other Universal laws and can tell you that You and only You can change your life. Every part of your life is exactly the result of what you created. As soon as you can accept that, your life will take on different meaning. Until YOU accept it, doing this work will be difficult. (reading back through previous posts may help with this)

So how do you change the feelings, how do you read the message and deal with it. It is all about controlling your mind.

Right here, right now you have control of your life. You can decide. The feelings you are having are the result of thoughts about the past or future.

So YOU have to change what You are thinking about, since depression is related to thoughts about the past or the future, to stop the pain you have to stop the mind. This requires bringing your attention to the NOW, right here, right now. And you have to do it until you are able to stay there or at least be there anytime a sad or painful feeling arises. (I had to do it for 48 hours straight, before my mind finally gave up and stopped the madness of regurgitating the thoughts and feelings of pain and sadness.)

If you want to more on this, here is the website I found that changed my life, he has put things into a simple little book that will change your life. The cost is under $10, which is a real bargain for this information.

http://hop.clickbank.net/hop.cgi?cet0808/bhappynow

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Transforming the Energy of Pain and Suffering

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Transforming the Energy of Pain and Suffering

We carry within ourselves the burden of our past and our childhood. A package that was handed to us keep, that is not ours at all. Much like the announcements made at the airport, we should have reminders if any one asks us to carry an emotional package or article for them we need to report it to the emotional baggage police. Are you carrying something, a heavy burden, that someone else gave you or told you to carry, or that you just picked up because you felt obligated?

Take Financial obligations and debt. There is no debt in the Divine mind. God doesn’t see debt. In my journey and effort to unravel what is not working in my life, I have discovered that my debts are my way of carrying around unfilled obligations. Feeling the obligation as a package of feelings and responsibilities that filled that space and place inside of me that somehow thought I had to carry my piece of the family responsibility.

As a child being powerless and unable to "do" anything I always had a sense of not being able to help and not having the resources I needed to change the dynamics of what was happening in the family. I had no way to relate to this or to change it and somewhere in my infant mind found that financial obligation filled that need to carry my part. It is not necessary nor it is it essential to the functioning of the world. In reality it is an illusion of my own making, as the true nature of the universe is abundance. Even though I "know" that in my mind, a energetic part of myself is attached to this feeling of obligation and I haven’t been able to get beyond it, until I realized why I was carrying it.

What is your package attached to? Pain? Fear? Health? Finances?

Are you carrying the payment for your childhood failures, to fulfill your perceived obligation to your parents/family /teachers? things you weren’t even aware of? A combination of all of these things?

To truly heal whatever is out of balance requires changing the energy within your mind and body. First you have to find that place or experience in your childhood where you first felt this energy. Second you have to change your thoughts about all of it, consciously and intentionally. Third you have to begin changing your feelings about it.

Once you can actually "feel" better and can reach that place where you can feel good in every moment, letting go of your "need" to be something or to satisfy some past event or process. As you begin to generate good feelings, and the law of attraction begins to work in a powerful way, bringing you more of the good experiences that you want, thereby generating more good feelings. It does require effort, energy and hard work to change these processes, thoughts and feelings.

Here is something that helped me understand...

From Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls by Robert Burney

It does not matter how much Spiritual Truth, how many mystical experiences of oneness, how in tune with Love, you can feel in certain moments - if you cannot integrate it into your life in a way which changes your emotional experience of life on a moment to moment, day to day basis. You can go to therapy for many years, read all the Spiritual and self help books, go to workshops and seminars and lectures - compile encyclopedic intellectual knowledge of what healthy behavior is - and still be reacting to old wounds in the relationships that mean the most to you.

The missing ingredient for so many people who have been seeking for many years, is how to integrate what you know into how you feel about your experience of life.

End quote.

What ever is happening for you, has probably been happening to you since early childhood. The universe (life) brings to you what you are feeling. It is simply an opportunity to see what you are thinking and feeling. There is no value in keeping them or holding on to any part of them you don’t want. When you decide to change your life, you become the catalyst and the force of that change. The circumstances and experiences that follow are totally your responsibility. You are in the School of Transformation.

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

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Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Fundamental Changes

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As we are all familiar with computers and they function much like our minds, I was reading and listening to several articles and links today, out of that I realized that we have to make fundamental corrections to our programs.

For instance, if you click on an icon on your computer it opens a program, every time and always the same program. No matter how many times you click and no matter how you click it is the same. There is nothing you can do to change that.
Sometimes if you get a virus, strange things may happen, and unwanted programs open and pop up on your screen.

How does this relate to life? -

READ ON

and don’t let this article stop you, there is more below.


From –LIFE and MIND—In Search of the Physical Basis, Edited by Savely Savva

Click here for more info -

http://misaha.com:40090/book.php

The Mind

As postulated above, the mind is an essential part of the biofield control system responsible for behavioral aspects of fundamental programs of life. The word “mind” is used rather than “consciousness” in order to distinguish the general “decision-making” mechanism from awareness associated with the latter in higher species. The mind includes fundamental drives or “basic instincts” serving conservation of the individual, population and the species, such as attraction to the food and opposite sex, avoidance of threats, and sticking to the group. The mind holds memory and extracts meanings out of perceived information. It also includes programs prioritizing the organism’s reaction to changing internal and external conditions, i.e., how to behave when, for instance, hunger, threat and sex drives act simultaneously. Development of the nervous system and the brain in biological evolution only broadened the mind capacity.

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Did you see programs?

Our brain and cells run like computers, no matter how many times you TRY to change what is happening on a daily basis, if you are clicking the same icon you get the same results. If you get a mind “virus” (which is information that is based on someone else’s truth) then you have to deal with pop ups and programs that begin to run that you don’t want or need. So be aware of what you allow into your mind, and what is running. Only you have the power to decide what you are going to load in your program database, USE your add/remove programs feature to get rid of the ones you don’t want.

Here is where many of us need help. IN my business, I often get calls to clean off viruses, fix programs that are not working, help people figure out simple things on their computers. They call me because they are stuck. The same applies to our minds, we often need help with changing our programs.

Unfortunately many people have turned to religion and the Church for this help, and found themselves victims of religious abuse, rather than empowered and filled with the Divine. That is not to say that all churches are wrong, but many have abused their power. Often as the expense of those who came for help.

So if you looking to change your life, you need someone who is qualified and has YOUR best interest at heart. Someone who is focused on helping others rather than just making money, or taking away your power. Again making money is not wrong, it is an essential part of life, and when you connect to the kingdom within, money flows into your life, is the intention of the person helping you and your intentions as well that matters.

So today it is up to you – are you ready to make fundamental changes to your programs? Are you prepared to step into your true essence? Become all that you have wanted to? Good, then it is time to begin. Find a good coach that can help you through this, and then either find or create a group of like minded people to work together. If you have trouble finding a qualified coach that can help with these issues you can contact me at soulcoachyms@gmail.com.

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Friday, August 1, 2008

The Power of Grace Light

I have intensified my search and work within myself to get beyond the human limitation and find my Source as Wayne Dyer and others talk about. To go beyond struggle and pain, to be free of mediocrity, to find and connect to the Divine. So I have asked for wisdom and understanding, for guidance and discernment.

As has been the case so many times in the past, my answer was in my mailbox. (Yes God has a sense of humor) but he also knows I write a lot and that I will look there.

Today I opened this –

http://www.goddessofdivinity.com

Scroll down and watch the video….


Grace light is the infusion of the Divine, it can happen in an instant, and we all have the power to have it, use it, and share it.

Here is what I was given about this – much like when electricity was discovered, few people knew about it properties, even fewer people knew how to use it.

Ask any electrician what the effect of electricity will be and he will reply that
"Electricity is a form of motion and its effect will depend upon the mechanism to
which it is attached." Upon this mechanism will depend whether we shall have heat, light, power, music or any of the other marvelous demonstration of power to which this vital energy has been harnessed.

So if you plug a light into the outlet, you get light, if you plug your stereo in you get music, etc.

The same principle applies to our Divinity, if you plug Joy and Happiness into this unlimited power source you get that, if you plug your pain and suffering in, you will get that.

It is up to each of us to do this for ourselves, and then to reach out and pass it on to others. So unplug whatever you are holding in your heart that isn’t working, and know that just by reading this and watching the video, your energy and connection has been changed.