In this fascinating journey, we often meet Angels without realizing it.
One way to recognize them is to pay attention to how you feel when they are near and or after they leave.
In my Innerworks program (self imposed and self assigned) I finally reached the transition point between having an iron grip on my past and what I had previously created, and what My Goals and Desires were taking me to.
Now I have spent considerable time focusing on my new goals and actually defining and refining them to the degree that I felt I was clear on what I wanted and needed to do. And yet I found myself continually returning to the thoughts, desires and feelings of my past manifestations.
This was interfering with any abilities to create or manifest, as my "cup" was full of the old stuff.
Finally after an Angel experience I was given, where I saw and felt the presence of God in a new way, it opened my awareness and shifted my need to hang onto old ways of being in this world, to being completely open to the new, to trust that what I was creating and manifesting was slowly taking form and soon would be in my life.
I find myself unable to express the experience in words, but clearly understood and felt it in my heart and my mind. The closest thing I can equate it to is having a divine experience.
To anyone else (and there were other people there) they were unaware of anything happening, most likely even the Angel may have been unaware of her part. It is in the subtlety in which God is able to work and show us the divine plan that we discover the simplicity of doing nothing.
With that said, the message today is to trust that the work you are doing is working, you don't need a lot of tools, just the understanding of how to build what you want.
This is much like building a house, you don't have to build it yourself(unless you feel inclined to) most people hire a general contractor. Even he is not going to do the physical work. The Contractor hires specialists, that do each individual job. As each specialist shows up they only do their individual job, the electrician does not try to hang drywall, the painter does not try to install the windows, etc.
So as each piece is created the house begins to take shape, as you trust each group to do their job in the right order, you soon have a new house.
So we could see God as the General Contractor, and he sends specialists to help us create what we want and need. Our job is to learn to recognize and trust those people that are sent to us. In doing that we will facilitate our own growth and manifestations. We also have to learn to release those that are finished their jobs.
Locking the carpenter in the closet in case you need him later is not in your best interest nor his. If you need a carpenter later, either he will return or you will find another. There is no lack of carpenters.
Now returning to the Angels, who are often there to guide us to new paths for our journey, as when we decide to let go of the old and move towards the new, we have to find the new path. Traveling our old path simply returns us back to the cold campfire we left earlier, where we poke around and try to restart the fire and complain that we keep getting the same results.
The AHA comes when we can see that, accept it is our own doing and release it. LET IT GO!
So how does one begin this shift?
You start by changing your thoughts, this takes training and practice, much like dancing, taking a lesson will not make you a better dancer, if you don't practice the lesson you don't change the results. So you have to constantly practice taking charge of your thoughts.
Next change your experiences, stop going to your old hangouts, stores, your favorite beach or park. Find new places, new people and new experiences. The action of changing that energy is a powerful catalyst that sends the message to your higher self and the Angels that you are serious about your new Goals and desires.
So now it is time to PRACTICE - embrace the changes and find new things to become.
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Saturday, September 3, 2011
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
Waltzing with God Part 2
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Regarding the previous post about The Art if Surrender, I have had to apply the dynamics, principles, and essence of this work in my own life. Particularly as it applies to my intention to learn to waltz with God.
In uncovering my own stuck places, I've come to realize that what I hear and see others doing and saying are the very things that I myself need to work on. I've learned that everything I see and hear is an actual reflection of my own inner creations. That I am the cause of everything I have and experience.
This awareness has prompted me to pay attention to the messages and guidance that I have been given from God. In order to see and understand this information, I have learned that I have to pay attention and follow the lead that God is providing me. The challenge is following with responsiveness, rather than being like a puppet on a string.
If you read the previous post, it describes this process in exquisite detail. Following with responsiveness, like the clouds follow the wind, requires watchfulness and discipline. Neither of which we are taught nor trained to do.
In ballroom dancing, this same relationship takes place, but only if both partners know and understand all of these elements. Even though I have learned, practiced, and experienced this, it remains a challenge for me to do it with God.
I have found this to be utterly fascinating, mostly because I have spent considerable time learning to control my mind, and understand the masculine and feminine balance in relationships. Even as I begin each day with the intention to do my part perfectly, there are times when I try to lead. These moments usually produce unwanted results, which made me painfully aware that I am leading.
As I become aware of the power and exquisite beauty of this dance, I often reminded of the advice of many Guru’s - Do Nothing. It took me a lot of prayers, practice and dedication to understanding the meaning of doing nothing. Simply enough, the truth I have discovered is that we only have to stop trying to lead the Dance.
This brings us to the two critical components of this work - Watchfulness and Discipline.
These I will address in future posts.
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Regarding the previous post about The Art if Surrender, I have had to apply the dynamics, principles, and essence of this work in my own life. Particularly as it applies to my intention to learn to waltz with God.
In uncovering my own stuck places, I've come to realize that what I hear and see others doing and saying are the very things that I myself need to work on. I've learned that everything I see and hear is an actual reflection of my own inner creations. That I am the cause of everything I have and experience.
This awareness has prompted me to pay attention to the messages and guidance that I have been given from God. In order to see and understand this information, I have learned that I have to pay attention and follow the lead that God is providing me. The challenge is following with responsiveness, rather than being like a puppet on a string.
If you read the previous post, it describes this process in exquisite detail. Following with responsiveness, like the clouds follow the wind, requires watchfulness and discipline. Neither of which we are taught nor trained to do.
In ballroom dancing, this same relationship takes place, but only if both partners know and understand all of these elements. Even though I have learned, practiced, and experienced this, it remains a challenge for me to do it with God.
I have found this to be utterly fascinating, mostly because I have spent considerable time learning to control my mind, and understand the masculine and feminine balance in relationships. Even as I begin each day with the intention to do my part perfectly, there are times when I try to lead. These moments usually produce unwanted results, which made me painfully aware that I am leading.
As I become aware of the power and exquisite beauty of this dance, I often reminded of the advice of many Guru’s - Do Nothing. It took me a lot of prayers, practice and dedication to understanding the meaning of doing nothing. Simply enough, the truth I have discovered is that we only have to stop trying to lead the Dance.
This brings us to the two critical components of this work - Watchfulness and Discipline.
These I will address in future posts.
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Monday, August 15, 2011
The Art of Surrender - explained
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The Art of Surrender, the Elements of Submissiveness
This article describes the process and the balance that happens when partners are in accord in the most eloquent and beautiful way I have ever heard. These are the words that describe it, the experience goes so far beyond what can be said and really has to be felt to comprehend the true essence and beauty of this exquisite connection!
I have tried to explain this in many ways to women who freeze when I talk about surrender or submissiveness, as they always go to their conditioned thoughts of being powerless. This article explains the difference beautifully.
So if you are ready here is the extraordinary description of surrender -
The richness of tango lies in contrast; in the interplay of opposites. There is continual interweaving of slow beats and quick beats; of smooth, flowing motion and sharp turns; of moves of expansion and moves of contraction; of freedom and discipline.
In one contrast the tango is unique among dances; and that is the contrast between its sensuality and the precision of its geometry. Sensuality and geometry are not often paired in aesthetics. The creative power of this pair of opposites, the vitality generated by their interaction, is seen in tango as nowhere else. And they point directly to the fundamental pair of opposites that are always at the secret heart of tango; man and woman.
It is often said that the man "dominates" tango, and the woman's role is "submissive." There is some truth in that. But it is such a crude and superficial understanding of the relation between man and woman in the tango that it distorts the creative act that arises from them.
From his own sensitivity to the music and to his partner, he recreates the history of tango every time he takes the floor. Unlike the more rigidly codified dances, every tango is a new tango. Each new pair of partners creates it from the beginning, according to the moment, the mood, the music, and their inner feeling. The state of the heart.
But the very reason the man creates the dance is to evoke the beauty, the grace, and the inner spirit of the woman, without which tango is only empty geometry. He evokes this inner feminine spirit for his own enjoyment, but also so the woman can enjoy her own femininity. He creates the form, and she fills it with beauty. That is the shared experience of tango.
In order to make this possible, the woman is not submissive, she is responsive. She is in a state of heightened awareness, watchful to the nuance of tempo and rhythm, sensitive not only to the music, but to the man's feeling about her and the music, and to the dance he is creating from those feelings.
The art of following in tango is both more subtle and more mysterious than leading. And when a woman follows, she is not dragging along behind like a platypus on a chain. She follows as a cloud follows the wind, and her art is to be as responsive to the man as the cloud is responsive to the wind
This state of heightened responsiveness is not an exclusively feminine skill, by any means. It is also the state of the hunter tracking a wounded animal. (It is even the state of the defensive backfield of the L A Rams, and I do not recall hearing the words "submissive" or "passive" used in that connection.) In the tango, it is the woman who plays this responsive role.
In fact, the image of the feminine that is evoked in the tango is at the farthest pole from passive. It has the greatest feminine range of any dance, at one moment swooning languidly into his arms, at the next a sassy, pert and rebellious flirtation. The tango can express a wider range of the feminine than any other dance, and this is the source of its power for both man and woman.
All these things have certain practical consequences in tango, and in particular in the lead. In the vast majority of cases the reason a woman does not follow is because the man is not leading.
First of all, when a woman is truly following, and in a highly responsive state, she is easily bored. If she always knows what is coming next, and with what timing you will lead any given figure, you will lose her attention and she will start dancing on her own. Perhaps that is acceptable for an exhibition dance, but there is a great difference between displaying the tango and dancing the tango.
An exhibition dance may show the form of tango beautifully, but loses its heart, which is the moment to moment flow of energy between the dancers, in which the outcome is an adventure and a mystery. In an exhibition the meaning is for an audience; in a dance the meaning is for the dancers alone. That is tango.
It is the man's responsibility to be creative enough to keep the woman's attention on the dance. She needs surprises, an occasional unexpected delight, or she will lapse into a routine of memorized steps, and the dance will not be a memorable one for either of you. (One way to improve a woman's following is to make her close her eyes, so that she can respond only to your lead, and not to mental images.)
The implication of this for the lead is clear. The man has to know what he is doing, and do it decisively, without ambiguity, and without giving confusing signals about it. The tango, like all arts, is a combination of freedom and discipline. The dancers cannot enjoy the rewards of tango freedom until they have mastered tango discipline; specifically, for the man, the discipline of leading with certainty.
In tango, particularly, there is survival value in certainty. For example, when you lead the figure el gancho, you must place the woman's body very accurately. Otherwise, and let us be straightforward about this, you will be kicked in the groin by a three inch spike heel moving at an extremely high rate of speed. This is not good. And at such a moment the thought that the woman in tango is "submissive" will not even cross your mind.
We can dispense with the superficial description of woman's role in tango as "passive." But we can also remember the seed of truth in the cliché: the heart of tango is in the contrast of opposites, and the more opposite the roles played by man and woman, the more creative the dance will be. Sensuality alone is limited. Geometry alone is limited. But in free and disciplined combination, together they are unlimited.
In the mythos of tango it is said that two dancers have died from the overwhelming emotion generated by the dance, one in Buenos Aires in 1912, the other in Paris in 1926. Both were women.
copied from this website –
http://www.donberry.com/NonFiction/Tango/tango.html
The Art of Surrender, the Elements of Submissiveness
This article describes the process and the balance that happens when partners are in accord in the most eloquent and beautiful way I have ever heard. These are the words that describe it, the experience goes so far beyond what can be said and really has to be felt to comprehend the true essence and beauty of this exquisite connection!
I have tried to explain this in many ways to women who freeze when I talk about surrender or submissiveness, as they always go to their conditioned thoughts of being powerless. This article explains the difference beautifully.
So if you are ready here is the extraordinary description of surrender -
The richness of tango lies in contrast; in the interplay of opposites. There is continual interweaving of slow beats and quick beats; of smooth, flowing motion and sharp turns; of moves of expansion and moves of contraction; of freedom and discipline.
In one contrast the tango is unique among dances; and that is the contrast between its sensuality and the precision of its geometry. Sensuality and geometry are not often paired in aesthetics. The creative power of this pair of opposites, the vitality generated by their interaction, is seen in tango as nowhere else. And they point directly to the fundamental pair of opposites that are always at the secret heart of tango; man and woman.
It is often said that the man "dominates" tango, and the woman's role is "submissive." There is some truth in that. But it is such a crude and superficial understanding of the relation between man and woman in the tango that it distorts the creative act that arises from them.
From his own sensitivity to the music and to his partner, he recreates the history of tango every time he takes the floor. Unlike the more rigidly codified dances, every tango is a new tango. Each new pair of partners creates it from the beginning, according to the moment, the mood, the music, and their inner feeling. The state of the heart.
But the very reason the man creates the dance is to evoke the beauty, the grace, and the inner spirit of the woman, without which tango is only empty geometry. He evokes this inner feminine spirit for his own enjoyment, but also so the woman can enjoy her own femininity. He creates the form, and she fills it with beauty. That is the shared experience of tango.
In order to make this possible, the woman is not submissive, she is responsive. She is in a state of heightened awareness, watchful to the nuance of tempo and rhythm, sensitive not only to the music, but to the man's feeling about her and the music, and to the dance he is creating from those feelings.
The art of following in tango is both more subtle and more mysterious than leading. And when a woman follows, she is not dragging along behind like a platypus on a chain. She follows as a cloud follows the wind, and her art is to be as responsive to the man as the cloud is responsive to the wind
This state of heightened responsiveness is not an exclusively feminine skill, by any means. It is also the state of the hunter tracking a wounded animal. (It is even the state of the defensive backfield of the L A Rams, and I do not recall hearing the words "submissive" or "passive" used in that connection.) In the tango, it is the woman who plays this responsive role.
In fact, the image of the feminine that is evoked in the tango is at the farthest pole from passive. It has the greatest feminine range of any dance, at one moment swooning languidly into his arms, at the next a sassy, pert and rebellious flirtation. The tango can express a wider range of the feminine than any other dance, and this is the source of its power for both man and woman.
All these things have certain practical consequences in tango, and in particular in the lead. In the vast majority of cases the reason a woman does not follow is because the man is not leading.
First of all, when a woman is truly following, and in a highly responsive state, she is easily bored. If she always knows what is coming next, and with what timing you will lead any given figure, you will lose her attention and she will start dancing on her own. Perhaps that is acceptable for an exhibition dance, but there is a great difference between displaying the tango and dancing the tango.
An exhibition dance may show the form of tango beautifully, but loses its heart, which is the moment to moment flow of energy between the dancers, in which the outcome is an adventure and a mystery. In an exhibition the meaning is for an audience; in a dance the meaning is for the dancers alone. That is tango.
It is the man's responsibility to be creative enough to keep the woman's attention on the dance. She needs surprises, an occasional unexpected delight, or she will lapse into a routine of memorized steps, and the dance will not be a memorable one for either of you. (One way to improve a woman's following is to make her close her eyes, so that she can respond only to your lead, and not to mental images.)
The implication of this for the lead is clear. The man has to know what he is doing, and do it decisively, without ambiguity, and without giving confusing signals about it. The tango, like all arts, is a combination of freedom and discipline. The dancers cannot enjoy the rewards of tango freedom until they have mastered tango discipline; specifically, for the man, the discipline of leading with certainty.
In tango, particularly, there is survival value in certainty. For example, when you lead the figure el gancho, you must place the woman's body very accurately. Otherwise, and let us be straightforward about this, you will be kicked in the groin by a three inch spike heel moving at an extremely high rate of speed. This is not good. And at such a moment the thought that the woman in tango is "submissive" will not even cross your mind.
We can dispense with the superficial description of woman's role in tango as "passive." But we can also remember the seed of truth in the cliché: the heart of tango is in the contrast of opposites, and the more opposite the roles played by man and woman, the more creative the dance will be. Sensuality alone is limited. Geometry alone is limited. But in free and disciplined combination, together they are unlimited.
In the mythos of tango it is said that two dancers have died from the overwhelming emotion generated by the dance, one in Buenos Aires in 1912, the other in Paris in 1926. Both were women.
copied from this website –
http://www.donberry.com/NonFiction/Tango/tango.html
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Understanding Surrender
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In my many travels, research and trying to understand my own past, I have been give a plethora of articles, information and books on various subjects relating to the balance of Feminine and Masculine energies in a relationship.
I have asked many times for understanding not only about myself and my experiences, how they affected me and my relationships, but the Joy, Beauty and exquisite experience that balance brings to a couple. I have received my answers in many forms and ways. I have experienced both extremes of balance and feminine energy.
Many women are so completely trapped in their past abuse, they are unable to even consider or discuss the qualities and processes that are involved. Rather than be vulnerable they much prefer being in charge and control everything in their environment. The Fear of repeating the past is so powerful that it blocks out all and any possibility of letting go and invoking their true Femininity. Most of this happens on an unconscious level.
True feminine power is this-- the deepest, more primal essence of being female -- is the ability to find strength in your softness, not in spite of it.
When a woman is truly able to fully embrace her femininity in a relationship she then empowers her partner to be and give her all that she wants and needs. This is the dichotomy of resistance, it prevents the very desires a woman holds in her heart, while seemingly she is being sexy and sensuous, in reality she is withholding the most divine energy and Love that her partner needs and desires from her.
It requires trust, and a partner that is on the same level and that understands how and why he is responsible for the woman's safety, security, and honors and respects her.
Ballroom dancing provides a perfect model and safe place to experience and practice this. Where the man is leading and the woman only has to follow, when it is done correctly the experience is divine. She has to completely surrender, trust that the man is giving her security, safety, and that he respects her desires to be taken through the movements with the intention to show off her beauty and Elegance.
Of course the man has to have the skills and ability to do that. So it requires an equal amount of work, practice, learning and giving for the mans part.
For a woman it requires great strength to be soft, to be able to let go and be taken care of, honored and respected at this level. Strangely enough all woman want it, few will ever have it. Fewer still can experience it without someone to guide them along this journey.
if this speaks to you then email me -
soulcoachyms@gmail.com
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In my many travels, research and trying to understand my own past, I have been give a plethora of articles, information and books on various subjects relating to the balance of Feminine and Masculine energies in a relationship.
I have asked many times for understanding not only about myself and my experiences, how they affected me and my relationships, but the Joy, Beauty and exquisite experience that balance brings to a couple. I have received my answers in many forms and ways. I have experienced both extremes of balance and feminine energy.
Many women are so completely trapped in their past abuse, they are unable to even consider or discuss the qualities and processes that are involved. Rather than be vulnerable they much prefer being in charge and control everything in their environment. The Fear of repeating the past is so powerful that it blocks out all and any possibility of letting go and invoking their true Femininity. Most of this happens on an unconscious level.
True feminine power is this-- the deepest, more primal essence of being female -- is the ability to find strength in your softness, not in spite of it.
When a woman is truly able to fully embrace her femininity in a relationship she then empowers her partner to be and give her all that she wants and needs. This is the dichotomy of resistance, it prevents the very desires a woman holds in her heart, while seemingly she is being sexy and sensuous, in reality she is withholding the most divine energy and Love that her partner needs and desires from her.
It requires trust, and a partner that is on the same level and that understands how and why he is responsible for the woman's safety, security, and honors and respects her.
Ballroom dancing provides a perfect model and safe place to experience and practice this. Where the man is leading and the woman only has to follow, when it is done correctly the experience is divine. She has to completely surrender, trust that the man is giving her security, safety, and that he respects her desires to be taken through the movements with the intention to show off her beauty and Elegance.
Of course the man has to have the skills and ability to do that. So it requires an equal amount of work, practice, learning and giving for the mans part.
For a woman it requires great strength to be soft, to be able to let go and be taken care of, honored and respected at this level. Strangely enough all woman want it, few will ever have it. Fewer still can experience it without someone to guide them along this journey.
if this speaks to you then email me -
soulcoachyms@gmail.com
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Saturday, June 25, 2011
Play all of the strings of your life!
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This came to me in an email today - it is an incredible demonstration of where we get stuck and how life can be when we are in tune!
From Mark Romero - (www.MarkRomeroMusic.com)
We all want to play beautiful music throughout our life.
Whether it be a desire for more prosperity, better health,
more dynamic relationships or a deeper spiritual connection,
we all seek to make our lives a beautiful symphony.
Unfortunately, many of us forget to play all of our strings.
Tune into this week's podcast to get some ideas on how
you can truly begin to play beautiful music throughout your life.
Click link below for more:
Play all Your Strings
Thanks for tuning in, and have a wonderful weekend!
Mark Romero
www.MarkRomeroMusic.com
support@markromeromusic.com
MarkRomeroMusic.com
PO Box 7345
Laguna Niguel, CA
92607
For reference here is the link to my Accord article -
Accord Blog
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This came to me in an email today - it is an incredible demonstration of where we get stuck and how life can be when we are in tune!
From Mark Romero - (www.MarkRomeroMusic.com)
We all want to play beautiful music throughout our life.
Whether it be a desire for more prosperity, better health,
more dynamic relationships or a deeper spiritual connection,
we all seek to make our lives a beautiful symphony.
Unfortunately, many of us forget to play all of our strings.
Tune into this week's podcast to get some ideas on how
you can truly begin to play beautiful music throughout your life.
Click link below for more:
Play all Your Strings
Thanks for tuning in, and have a wonderful weekend!
Mark Romero
www.MarkRomeroMusic.com
support@markromeromusic.com
MarkRomeroMusic.com
PO Box 7345
Laguna Niguel, CA
92607
For reference here is the link to my Accord article -
Accord Blog
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Tuesday, June 21, 2011
The Real Secret!
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For those who have read my previous posts, you are familiar with my fascination with the mind and the brain. Also I have spent many hours uncovering the causes and secrets to creating my desires and shedding the past. Like an archaeologist I have dug, studied, and documented my discoveries, many of them in these blogs.
Today I have found a Gem of great price, one that provides the key to the power of all of the rest of my work and others work as well. Incredibly in does not involve buying programs or tapes, but the purchase of a book for $24.95.
Of course if you purchase this book and read it, your life will be changed (at least your understanding will be changed, in order for your life to change you will have to apply the changes recommended in the book)
So what is the book? - Power UP Your Brain by David Perlmutter
I can only tell you that I have done extensive research and study of the mind and this book is the key to turning on your brain and enabling you to implement all of the books, tapes and endless programs you have purchased and were unable to implement previously.
It does require changing your diet, exercising, and meditation.
For some people this may be very difficult, but is achievable.
For some it may require treatments at the Perlmutter center - click this link -
Perlmutter Center
Share this with your friends, family and loved ones today!
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For those who have read my previous posts, you are familiar with my fascination with the mind and the brain. Also I have spent many hours uncovering the causes and secrets to creating my desires and shedding the past. Like an archaeologist I have dug, studied, and documented my discoveries, many of them in these blogs.
Today I have found a Gem of great price, one that provides the key to the power of all of the rest of my work and others work as well. Incredibly in does not involve buying programs or tapes, but the purchase of a book for $24.95.
Of course if you purchase this book and read it, your life will be changed (at least your understanding will be changed, in order for your life to change you will have to apply the changes recommended in the book)
So what is the book? - Power UP Your Brain by David Perlmutter
I can only tell you that I have done extensive research and study of the mind and this book is the key to turning on your brain and enabling you to implement all of the books, tapes and endless programs you have purchased and were unable to implement previously.
It does require changing your diet, exercising, and meditation.
For some people this may be very difficult, but is achievable.
For some it may require treatments at the Perlmutter center - click this link -
Perlmutter Center
Share this with your friends, family and loved ones today!
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Monday, June 6, 2011
Finding the Truth
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One can see in the variety and diversity of the worlds religions that something is out of balance. It took me many years of study and meditation to understand this process.
What I discovered is amazing. When one discovers his “TRUTH” he feel alive and connected. This individual then tries to share that with others or writes a book, and begins to teach his “TRUTH” to others. Since most people have been conditioned to give their will to a higher power and this individual seems to have a connection to “GOD” they listen, and soon they are conditioned to that “TRUTH”, eventually an entire religion grows out of that.
Now we have many Truths, from many groups, and all believe that their truth is the one and only truth. The real TRUTH is none of them are true for everybody. Each of us has his or her own Truth. Yes we can agree or certain principles or tenants, and in the big picture if we follow our own Truth we are actually all in agreement at the core of our being, as we have all come from the same place. As we live our Truth, all others are free to live theirs, and the Truth shall set you free!
So find YOUR Truth and live it everyday, in that you can be Your Magnificent Self.
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One can see in the variety and diversity of the worlds religions that something is out of balance. It took me many years of study and meditation to understand this process.
What I discovered is amazing. When one discovers his “TRUTH” he feel alive and connected. This individual then tries to share that with others or writes a book, and begins to teach his “TRUTH” to others. Since most people have been conditioned to give their will to a higher power and this individual seems to have a connection to “GOD” they listen, and soon they are conditioned to that “TRUTH”, eventually an entire religion grows out of that.
Now we have many Truths, from many groups, and all believe that their truth is the one and only truth. The real TRUTH is none of them are true for everybody. Each of us has his or her own Truth. Yes we can agree or certain principles or tenants, and in the big picture if we follow our own Truth we are actually all in agreement at the core of our being, as we have all come from the same place. As we live our Truth, all others are free to live theirs, and the Truth shall set you free!
So find YOUR Truth and live it everyday, in that you can be Your Magnificent Self.
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Thursday, June 2, 2011
Unrequited Love
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As I have wandered about looking for my Dragon's and attempting to fall on my sword, I frequently am given information that brings new awareness's. The following article is one such example.
Often we see another as the epitome of what we want, and they often fail us, not because they are not perfect in their own journey, but because they can never be that which we truly desire, which is the divine within ourselves.
Check out my previous post - Laughter and Mergence, as it is related to this also.
From Psychic Liam - http://www.californiapsychics.com
Uncover the Secret Behind Unrequited Love
The kingdom of our collective unconscious is a mystical realm, brimming with shadowy, dew-laden flora, ripe with the dichotomy of creation amid the throbbing putrefaction of death and decay. It is a fertile mother’s womb of heaving blood and coursing corpuscles, all instinct and fetish and tribal delirium ripping through currents of subterranean psychic flow. And it is in this deep, murky realm that the archetypal roots of unrequited love are found. This most harrowing of Eros’ gifts is a universal concept experienced to some extent by everyone at one time or another, and tales of it capture our collective imagination over and over again.
We recognize the general idea at first glance in the rejection of Apollo by Daphne, and in the distant unspoken adoration of Charlie Brown for his Little Red Haired Girl. Lovers who fall out of love, or choose to leave the path of consummation in the manner of Hamlet and Ophelia, do not qualify, for unrequited love is a love that is never returned, not even briefly. It is always singular. Always torturous. Always lonely.
A lover thus afflicted never attains the object of their desire and generally comes to some sort of tragic end. Unrequited love is the path of Hans Christian Andersen’s Little Mermaid, and Tennyson’s Lady of Shalott with her funeral boat floating down to Camelot. It is anguish beyond reason that can only end in death and a return to the crucible of nature Herself.
In the tales and myths of unrequited love, we find themes that vibrate with the primal beauty of decay and corruption, the very essence of splendor through pain. It is a dance with the horrors of masochism.
Tennyson and Andersen’s heroines are both outsiders, alien to the worlds where their beloveds reside. The Little Mermaid is a princess of the dynamically feminine water elementals, whose kingdom is symbolic of the saline depths of our unconscious and instinctive minds. As humans once crawled from the oceans, losing our scales and tails, so she strives to make her way to land—to sprout legs and achieve masculine, linear consciousness.
Andersen’s oceanic creatures have no souls, returning upon death to the foam from which they are made. It is a land dweller, a princely heir to a hierarchical throne, who may by his love and acceptance grant her an immortal soul. In her desperate quest for that love the Little Mermaid sacrifices everything and is rejected. The Lady of Shalott is no less tragic. This seer with her magick mirror is locked away in a tower in a vain attempt to avoid what cannot be avoided. The moment she casts her eye on the pride of Camelot, she is lost. The curse is instantly upon her. Primeval nature attempts to conform to patriarchy and is immolated. He is beyond her… promised in his heart to another, she cannot hope to win him.
At the very root of this archetype lies the human desire to hold a sacred object. The victims of unrequited love are not experiencing the chemical drive for physical mating so much as a spiritual longing for union with the divine. They project the divinity they seek onto the objects of their desire. In an eruption of vital poetic juices, the forbidden kingdom bursts outward and finds its mark on a material beloved.
It doesn’t matter that the beloved isn’t even really known at all. What matters is what that beloved represents. The Little Mermaid never knows her Prince for what he really is, a human with flaws and frailties. The Lady of Shalott sees in Lancelot the shimmering power of a phallic lord and she deifies him. When we experience an unrequited love ourselves what we are doing is projecting our deep need for that subconscious “other”—that dream lover, phantom, Goddess or God, onto some unsuspecting mortal target.
We think we want the chance to love them but what we really want is the chance to love the divine within ourselves. Sadly, in our rapid-fire evolution of blazing consciousness, we have lost the keys to that particular kingdom. Tales of unrequited love serve to remind us of our own need to go back to the foam. And they so often conclude in the sorrowful beauty of untimely death because we know in our hearts that is it is only in the dissolving of ego and flesh that this ultimate union can ever take place.
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As I have wandered about looking for my Dragon's and attempting to fall on my sword, I frequently am given information that brings new awareness's. The following article is one such example.
Often we see another as the epitome of what we want, and they often fail us, not because they are not perfect in their own journey, but because they can never be that which we truly desire, which is the divine within ourselves.
Check out my previous post - Laughter and Mergence, as it is related to this also.
From Psychic Liam - http://www.californiapsychics.com
Uncover the Secret Behind Unrequited Love
The kingdom of our collective unconscious is a mystical realm, brimming with shadowy, dew-laden flora, ripe with the dichotomy of creation amid the throbbing putrefaction of death and decay. It is a fertile mother’s womb of heaving blood and coursing corpuscles, all instinct and fetish and tribal delirium ripping through currents of subterranean psychic flow. And it is in this deep, murky realm that the archetypal roots of unrequited love are found. This most harrowing of Eros’ gifts is a universal concept experienced to some extent by everyone at one time or another, and tales of it capture our collective imagination over and over again.
We recognize the general idea at first glance in the rejection of Apollo by Daphne, and in the distant unspoken adoration of Charlie Brown for his Little Red Haired Girl. Lovers who fall out of love, or choose to leave the path of consummation in the manner of Hamlet and Ophelia, do not qualify, for unrequited love is a love that is never returned, not even briefly. It is always singular. Always torturous. Always lonely.
A lover thus afflicted never attains the object of their desire and generally comes to some sort of tragic end. Unrequited love is the path of Hans Christian Andersen’s Little Mermaid, and Tennyson’s Lady of Shalott with her funeral boat floating down to Camelot. It is anguish beyond reason that can only end in death and a return to the crucible of nature Herself.
In the tales and myths of unrequited love, we find themes that vibrate with the primal beauty of decay and corruption, the very essence of splendor through pain. It is a dance with the horrors of masochism.
Tennyson and Andersen’s heroines are both outsiders, alien to the worlds where their beloveds reside. The Little Mermaid is a princess of the dynamically feminine water elementals, whose kingdom is symbolic of the saline depths of our unconscious and instinctive minds. As humans once crawled from the oceans, losing our scales and tails, so she strives to make her way to land—to sprout legs and achieve masculine, linear consciousness.
Andersen’s oceanic creatures have no souls, returning upon death to the foam from which they are made. It is a land dweller, a princely heir to a hierarchical throne, who may by his love and acceptance grant her an immortal soul. In her desperate quest for that love the Little Mermaid sacrifices everything and is rejected. The Lady of Shalott is no less tragic. This seer with her magick mirror is locked away in a tower in a vain attempt to avoid what cannot be avoided. The moment she casts her eye on the pride of Camelot, she is lost. The curse is instantly upon her. Primeval nature attempts to conform to patriarchy and is immolated. He is beyond her… promised in his heart to another, she cannot hope to win him.
At the very root of this archetype lies the human desire to hold a sacred object. The victims of unrequited love are not experiencing the chemical drive for physical mating so much as a spiritual longing for union with the divine. They project the divinity they seek onto the objects of their desire. In an eruption of vital poetic juices, the forbidden kingdom bursts outward and finds its mark on a material beloved.
It doesn’t matter that the beloved isn’t even really known at all. What matters is what that beloved represents. The Little Mermaid never knows her Prince for what he really is, a human with flaws and frailties. The Lady of Shalott sees in Lancelot the shimmering power of a phallic lord and she deifies him. When we experience an unrequited love ourselves what we are doing is projecting our deep need for that subconscious “other”—that dream lover, phantom, Goddess or God, onto some unsuspecting mortal target.
We think we want the chance to love them but what we really want is the chance to love the divine within ourselves. Sadly, in our rapid-fire evolution of blazing consciousness, we have lost the keys to that particular kingdom. Tales of unrequited love serve to remind us of our own need to go back to the foam. And they so often conclude in the sorrowful beauty of untimely death because we know in our hearts that is it is only in the dissolving of ego and flesh that this ultimate union can ever take place.
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Friday, May 6, 2011
Your Goals and Motivation!
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Here is a new perspective on an old story, Many know the Bible story where David killed the giant, Goliath. We have been taught how courageous he was and the reasons why he did what he did.
In reality it was because he was motivated, the King had offered his daughter, land and tax relief to any man who could kill Goliath. David wanted the princess, he was willing to die to get her, he was determined to manifest his dream, to seize an opportunity to have his desires.
It required action and determination, David had no experience in killing a Giant, and the other soldiers were afraid and mocked him. He didn't let that stop him, he simply focused on what he wanted. In the end he accomplished his mission.
So what is your goal? what is your motivation?
Spend the time to determine exactly what you want to have, eliminate the Giants before you and capture the prize. The way has been made clear, it is up to you to find the tools and motivation to take you to your goal.
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Here is a new perspective on an old story, Many know the Bible story where David killed the giant, Goliath. We have been taught how courageous he was and the reasons why he did what he did.
In reality it was because he was motivated, the King had offered his daughter, land and tax relief to any man who could kill Goliath. David wanted the princess, he was willing to die to get her, he was determined to manifest his dream, to seize an opportunity to have his desires.
It required action and determination, David had no experience in killing a Giant, and the other soldiers were afraid and mocked him. He didn't let that stop him, he simply focused on what he wanted. In the end he accomplished his mission.
So what is your goal? what is your motivation?
Spend the time to determine exactly what you want to have, eliminate the Giants before you and capture the prize. The way has been made clear, it is up to you to find the tools and motivation to take you to your goal.
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Tuesday, April 19, 2011
Surrender
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One has to study and understand the power that lies in surrender before they are willing to allow it. It is actually a very odd dichotomy that one resists the very element that gives them the power they seek.
As we have been so conditioned to protect ourselves from our abusers, and we struggle most of our lives trying to gain and maintain independence, we often remain trapped in the fight. Not realizing that the fight drains our energy and leaves us exhausted and vulnerable to the enemy.
Once one finds that space and place of knowing that true power lies in the surrender of our beliefs, our need to control, and letting go of our defenses, then the power begins to emerge.
It requires intention to allow your internal power to be present rather than the mental processes. When you can allow a greater power to command and control your desires, your thoughts and your experiences, you will begin to understand and experience a new freedom. Pleasures that previously were unimaginable will now begin to be a part of who and what you are.
It requires letting go of all the untruths that you were given previously, the trick here is that you cannot just throw them out or simply defeat them(they are too deeply ingrained) to do this you must find greater truths and use them to overwrite the lies that exist currently as your basis for daily living.
So where can you find a greater truth? That is the journey each of us must make on our own. I had to do mine, and I can share mine with you, but it may not be what you need. Many will tell you that their truth is the right one. THAT is a lie also!
I have experienced the absolute and complete surrender that one can allow, and it provides the most exquisite experiences one can imagine.
This is not a parlor trick where you magically transform yourself. It requires work and dedication. It requires knowledge and understanding. You have to commit to allowing change, willing to trust and believe in new ways. Having an experienced mentor will assist you greatly in this work.
Many of the previous blogs on this webpage are related to learning this, reviewing them will give you a better insight, as it requires more than this short article can cover.
Pleasant journeys into yourself....
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One has to study and understand the power that lies in surrender before they are willing to allow it. It is actually a very odd dichotomy that one resists the very element that gives them the power they seek.
As we have been so conditioned to protect ourselves from our abusers, and we struggle most of our lives trying to gain and maintain independence, we often remain trapped in the fight. Not realizing that the fight drains our energy and leaves us exhausted and vulnerable to the enemy.
Once one finds that space and place of knowing that true power lies in the surrender of our beliefs, our need to control, and letting go of our defenses, then the power begins to emerge.
It requires intention to allow your internal power to be present rather than the mental processes. When you can allow a greater power to command and control your desires, your thoughts and your experiences, you will begin to understand and experience a new freedom. Pleasures that previously were unimaginable will now begin to be a part of who and what you are.
It requires letting go of all the untruths that you were given previously, the trick here is that you cannot just throw them out or simply defeat them(they are too deeply ingrained) to do this you must find greater truths and use them to overwrite the lies that exist currently as your basis for daily living.
So where can you find a greater truth? That is the journey each of us must make on our own. I had to do mine, and I can share mine with you, but it may not be what you need. Many will tell you that their truth is the right one. THAT is a lie also!
I have experienced the absolute and complete surrender that one can allow, and it provides the most exquisite experiences one can imagine.
This is not a parlor trick where you magically transform yourself. It requires work and dedication. It requires knowledge and understanding. You have to commit to allowing change, willing to trust and believe in new ways. Having an experienced mentor will assist you greatly in this work.
Many of the previous blogs on this webpage are related to learning this, reviewing them will give you a better insight, as it requires more than this short article can cover.
Pleasant journeys into yourself....
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Friday, February 4, 2011
Be Born Again
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This came to me recently and I wanted to share it with you....
Jesus said you must be born again....
SO what does that mean? In working with my good friend, who had discovered his own inner child and how the early days of our lives affect our current lives, I suddenly realized what Jesus meant.
You have to go back and rebirth your current self from the perspectives of now. How do you do this? it is not easy and requires help and assistance. Currently I only know 2 people who understand how this works. Perhaps there are more, and we will find them, certainly we will teach more people to do this work.
Going back to dialogue with your infant self and being able to nurture and take them from the pain and distortion they experienced, to understanding LOVE JOY and Happiness is delicate and yet some of the most powerful work you will do.
I will continue to post more as we develop this process.
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This came to me recently and I wanted to share it with you....
Jesus said you must be born again....
SO what does that mean? In working with my good friend, who had discovered his own inner child and how the early days of our lives affect our current lives, I suddenly realized what Jesus meant.
You have to go back and rebirth your current self from the perspectives of now. How do you do this? it is not easy and requires help and assistance. Currently I only know 2 people who understand how this works. Perhaps there are more, and we will find them, certainly we will teach more people to do this work.
Going back to dialogue with your infant self and being able to nurture and take them from the pain and distortion they experienced, to understanding LOVE JOY and Happiness is delicate and yet some of the most powerful work you will do.
I will continue to post more as we develop this process.
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Laugh at Myself
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I recently learned that Laughter is the Key to Power.
Taking myself too seriously caused me to be very attached to what I have and created. By laughing at my illusions (everything that seemed to be real, but actually is not, such as annoying people and circumstances) they no longer affect me the same way..
It becomes a game, and why not... Jesus said "You must become like a little child"
If you watch a child they laugh a lot!
and I find that many of them will make jokes about everything.
So now when something appears in my life that annoys me i laugh at it and send it away.
Now this has not prevented these things from being in my life or appearing on a regular basis. It requires daily and sometimes moment by moment awareness. So I laugh a lot now!
It does change your access to power, for now I am slowly beginning to find my power and create more of what I want.
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I recently learned that Laughter is the Key to Power.
Taking myself too seriously caused me to be very attached to what I have and created. By laughing at my illusions (everything that seemed to be real, but actually is not, such as annoying people and circumstances) they no longer affect me the same way..
It becomes a game, and why not... Jesus said "You must become like a little child"
If you watch a child they laugh a lot!
and I find that many of them will make jokes about everything.
So now when something appears in my life that annoys me i laugh at it and send it away.
Now this has not prevented these things from being in my life or appearing on a regular basis. It requires daily and sometimes moment by moment awareness. So I laugh a lot now!
It does change your access to power, for now I am slowly beginning to find my power and create more of what I want.
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Laughter and Mergence
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In my journey of self discovery I often find information that is profouund and insightful. The following has helped me understand my current dilemma.
Perhaps the two subjects need to be looked at separately, but as they were intertwined when I discovered them I decided to include both aspects.
I have included the website this information came from at the end of this post.
Many people on the Earth, who become involved in religion superficially, believe that their ‘religious duty’ is to weep.
“Yet, spiritual warriors neither weep, nor complain, nor pity themselves. They see their own defects and — without stopping to fight — get rid of them once and for all!
Do you know, for example, how to master the art of perfect control over matter? It is very simple! One has to learn to laugh!
“I like to laugh! Do you want Me to tell you about the laugh of Nagual?
“Spiritual warriors from the very beginning must learn the laugh of Nagual: they laugh at their own vices and thus make them burst like soap-bubbles — vices burst together with the inflated feeling of self-importance!
“Many people believe that it is weapons that make man strong. This is wrong! It is laugh that makes man strong! The laugh of Nagual turns the envelope of the ‘I’ into nothing. The only thing one has to add is calm and love — and then… There is only infinite, flowing, free consciousness…
“Search for personal power is just a hook, a trick which the One Power* uses for ‘catching’ and teaching them who do not hear when they are told about Love… or Tenderness…
“If they do not learn this from the Power, they are not going to progress…
“There is the following law: the Power does not belong to anyone, only you can belong to the Power.
This cannot be conveyed to others by means of words. This has to be ‘tasted’: as one bites off, chews, and swallows a piece of bread — only then you can know it.
You love Me — and merge with Me. But I also love you — and merge with you! Mergence can be only mutual and voluntary. Any deviation from this rule is violence!
“In order to achieve absolute fullness of Mergence you have to become like-minded to Me…
“It is very hard to cleanse and enlighten the mind. In order to become like-minded to Me, one has to begin with throwing out from the head all habitual, old stereotypes, which are easy to use, — the stereotypes of thinking and behaving. The spiritual warrior has to make the mind open for receiving new.
“Also, realize: I remain always That What I am, independent of the conditions occurring on the material plane. You, too, have to master this: to be Me independent of what happens around.
“One of the aspects of the art of action is that if spiritual warriors happen to be in adverse conditions, they never merge with them but always remain true to themselves. It is not places of power on the Earth’s surface that have to dictate you who you are, but rather you have to remain that which you decided to be — independent of the energies of the surroundings and other influences!”
These excerpts are from this site -
God Speaks
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In my journey of self discovery I often find information that is profouund and insightful. The following has helped me understand my current dilemma.
Perhaps the two subjects need to be looked at separately, but as they were intertwined when I discovered them I decided to include both aspects.
I have included the website this information came from at the end of this post.
Many people on the Earth, who become involved in religion superficially, believe that their ‘religious duty’ is to weep.
“Yet, spiritual warriors neither weep, nor complain, nor pity themselves. They see their own defects and — without stopping to fight — get rid of them once and for all!
Do you know, for example, how to master the art of perfect control over matter? It is very simple! One has to learn to laugh!
“I like to laugh! Do you want Me to tell you about the laugh of Nagual?
“Spiritual warriors from the very beginning must learn the laugh of Nagual: they laugh at their own vices and thus make them burst like soap-bubbles — vices burst together with the inflated feeling of self-importance!
“Many people believe that it is weapons that make man strong. This is wrong! It is laugh that makes man strong! The laugh of Nagual turns the envelope of the ‘I’ into nothing. The only thing one has to add is calm and love — and then… There is only infinite, flowing, free consciousness…
“Search for personal power is just a hook, a trick which the One Power* uses for ‘catching’ and teaching them who do not hear when they are told about Love… or Tenderness…
“If they do not learn this from the Power, they are not going to progress…
“There is the following law: the Power does not belong to anyone, only you can belong to the Power.
This cannot be conveyed to others by means of words. This has to be ‘tasted’: as one bites off, chews, and swallows a piece of bread — only then you can know it.
You love Me — and merge with Me. But I also love you — and merge with you! Mergence can be only mutual and voluntary. Any deviation from this rule is violence!
“In order to achieve absolute fullness of Mergence you have to become like-minded to Me…
“It is very hard to cleanse and enlighten the mind. In order to become like-minded to Me, one has to begin with throwing out from the head all habitual, old stereotypes, which are easy to use, — the stereotypes of thinking and behaving. The spiritual warrior has to make the mind open for receiving new.
“Also, realize: I remain always That What I am, independent of the conditions occurring on the material plane. You, too, have to master this: to be Me independent of what happens around.
“One of the aspects of the art of action is that if spiritual warriors happen to be in adverse conditions, they never merge with them but always remain true to themselves. It is not places of power on the Earth’s surface that have to dictate you who you are, but rather you have to remain that which you decided to be — independent of the energies of the surroundings and other influences!”
These excerpts are from this site -
God Speaks
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Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Getting rid of the Demons
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What I have come to realize recently is the incredible amount of time spent in my own mind arguing with myself, or finding myself discussing things that I have no control over or that have happened in the past.
One example is recently I missed a deposit in my bank by four minutes, which meant the money would not be in my account for another day. When I realized what had happened I found myself going back over this event and how I could have, should have, stopped sooner, or changed my schedule, or been more aware of the time so that I could have made the deposit on time.
Then I realized I was spending so much time and energy thinking about something I can never ever change, And yet I felt compelled and driven to entertain the thoughts of the numerous and unlimited possibilities that could have taken place.
Listening this morning to my favorite coach Bob Proctor about our inner demons, I realized that this is a common and prolific problem that all of us have at sometime, and most of us live with it continuously.
So how do you achieve mastery over this particular process of our inner demons and/or our waste of time and energy.
If you read the previous post about training your brain this is part of that process. There is only one person in this world who can control your brain, your thoughts, and your actions, that is YOU!
This also relates back to previous posts regarding waltzing with God and the 1 2 3 dance.
Step one -
you have to be aware that you are experiencing in allowing this process to take place in your own mind.
Step two -
using your conscious awareness you have to monitor the thoughts that are running through your mind and consciously stop the ones that have no benefit or use to you in achieving your goals and manifesting your desires. This can be challenging and difficult for many people for several reasons, the most prevalent one being the fact that it's how our minds are conditioned and how we have learned to deal with life.
So it becomes very much like learning a new dancer or sport, you have to practice take lessons, study and practice some more, and when you haven't achieved that level of proficiency that you desire you take more lessons and practice more!
Essentially trying to achieve your goals without doing this will be an effort in futility and is the reason why most people fail.
Until you have mastery of your own mind, and can bring your thoughts emotions and feelings to the place where you can be what you want to be in your mind first, trying to experience what you have learned in a workshop or from a book, will be short-lived and unrealistic to you!
Step three -
If you can get to this point you are on your way to the mastery of your
own life!
Here you will longer allow the demons to control your life but rather will send them on their way with the quickness, with authority, and with a new found power!
Once you have mastered the control of your thoughts, you can put yourself in that place of being what you have chosen to create, your thoughts will now be in alignment and in focus, and in vibrational harmony with your purpose and your desire!
You can hold your mind and energy on that which you desire rather than on what is.
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What I have come to realize recently is the incredible amount of time spent in my own mind arguing with myself, or finding myself discussing things that I have no control over or that have happened in the past.
One example is recently I missed a deposit in my bank by four minutes, which meant the money would not be in my account for another day. When I realized what had happened I found myself going back over this event and how I could have, should have, stopped sooner, or changed my schedule, or been more aware of the time so that I could have made the deposit on time.
Then I realized I was spending so much time and energy thinking about something I can never ever change, And yet I felt compelled and driven to entertain the thoughts of the numerous and unlimited possibilities that could have taken place.
Listening this morning to my favorite coach Bob Proctor about our inner demons, I realized that this is a common and prolific problem that all of us have at sometime, and most of us live with it continuously.
So how do you achieve mastery over this particular process of our inner demons and/or our waste of time and energy.
If you read the previous post about training your brain this is part of that process. There is only one person in this world who can control your brain, your thoughts, and your actions, that is YOU!
This also relates back to previous posts regarding waltzing with God and the 1 2 3 dance.
Step one -
you have to be aware that you are experiencing in allowing this process to take place in your own mind.
Step two -
using your conscious awareness you have to monitor the thoughts that are running through your mind and consciously stop the ones that have no benefit or use to you in achieving your goals and manifesting your desires. This can be challenging and difficult for many people for several reasons, the most prevalent one being the fact that it's how our minds are conditioned and how we have learned to deal with life.
So it becomes very much like learning a new dancer or sport, you have to practice take lessons, study and practice some more, and when you haven't achieved that level of proficiency that you desire you take more lessons and practice more!
Essentially trying to achieve your goals without doing this will be an effort in futility and is the reason why most people fail.
Until you have mastery of your own mind, and can bring your thoughts emotions and feelings to the place where you can be what you want to be in your mind first, trying to experience what you have learned in a workshop or from a book, will be short-lived and unrealistic to you!
Step three -
If you can get to this point you are on your way to the mastery of your
own life!
Here you will longer allow the demons to control your life but rather will send them on their way with the quickness, with authority, and with a new found power!
Once you have mastered the control of your thoughts, you can put yourself in that place of being what you have chosen to create, your thoughts will now be in alignment and in focus, and in vibrational harmony with your purpose and your desire!
You can hold your mind and energy on that which you desire rather than on what is.
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