Understanding Surrender

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In my many travels, research and trying to understand my own past, I have been give a plethora of articles, information and books on various subjects relating to the balance of Feminine and Masculine energies in a relationship.

I have asked many times for understanding not only about myself and my experiences, how they affected me and my relationships, but the Joy, Beauty and exquisite experience that balance brings to a couple. I have received my answers in many forms and ways. I have experienced both extremes of balance and feminine energy.

Many women are so completely trapped in their past abuse, they are unable to even consider or discuss the qualities and processes that are involved. Rather than be vulnerable they much prefer being in charge and control everything in their environment. The Fear of repeating the past is so powerful that it blocks out all and any possibility of letting go and invoking their true Femininity. Most of this happens on an unconscious level.

True feminine power is this-- the deepest, more primal essence of being female -- is the ability to find strength in your softness, not in spite of it.

When a woman is truly able to fully embrace her femininity in a relationship she then empowers her partner to be and give her all that she wants and needs. This is the dichotomy of resistance, it prevents the very desires a woman holds in her heart, while seemingly she is being sexy and sensuous, in reality she is withholding the most divine energy and Love that her partner needs and desires from her.

It requires trust, and a partner that is on the same level and that understands how and why he is responsible for the woman's safety, security, and honors and respects her.

Ballroom dancing provides a perfect model and safe place to experience and practice this. Where the man is leading and the woman only has to follow, when it is done correctly the experience is divine. She has to completely surrender, trust that the man is giving her security, safety, and that he respects her desires to be taken through the movements with the intention to show off her beauty and Elegance.

Of course the man has to have the skills and ability to do that. So it requires an equal amount of work, practice, learning and giving for the mans part.

For a woman it requires great strength to be soft, to be able to let go and be taken care of, honored and respected at this level. Strangely enough all woman want it, few will ever have it. Fewer still can experience it without someone to guide them along this journey.

if this speaks to you then email me -

soulcoachyms@gmail.com


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