Accord -To be in agreement, unity, or harmony

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Accord - To be in agreement, unity, or harmony

Recently in my meditations I have been working on relationship difficulties and therefore have spent a lot of time working through the spatial and inner workings of what is causing the disharmony and difficulties.

When we meet a new partner things seem to be so harmonious at least on the surface. As we have all heard when the honeymoon is over things begin to unravel. And yet I have heard many stories of couples that remain in love and harmonious their entire lives together.

as I disassembled the workings of my own internal issues with this, I asked for the insight and wisdom to understand the underlying dynamics of the harmonious relationship.

What I was given is this... its back to the 1-2-3 process again. (if you haven't watched the Waltzing with God videos I will respost them at the end off this blog)

A musical chord is made up of three notes, there are 8 notes (plus the sharps and flats) in an octave and then there are essentially unlimited octaves. For now lets focus on relationships and the way this works.

Each aspect of our being - Spiritual, Physical and Mental have separate and distinct vibrations, which contain and often create our own individual chord.

When we meet a new person the most prominent note is the physical. It seems that this note is the easiest to tune. For whatever reason it seems to be the most powerful as well. Perhaps our biology, and survival instincts drives this connection.

Soon though we find disharmony begins, and it becomes not our own internal balance that seems off, but that the other person is out of balance, and needs to change.

This is where the chords are not synchronized. we are not in "ACCORD".

When two musician play together they not only have to play in the same key, they have to play the same chords at the same time in order for the music to produce music that is pleasing and beautiful. If one musician decides to play his own way and change the chords or notes you can hear the disharmony easily.

In a relationship when the disharmony begins we often feel it as well as hear it. We tend to blame the other for not following the music.

Until all three notes (Spiritual, Physical, Mental/Emotional) are in harmony with your partner, you will not be in ACCORD. If you are unable or unwilling to shift your vibration to match each others, you cannot find ACCORD. Many times couples are not able to tune in, and yet when they end that relationship and they can connect to another person, things can smooth out and become harmonious. They simply find someone who is more "in tune" with them.

This is the result of finding your matching vibration. Not just on the physical plane but on the Spiritual and Emotional/Mental as well.

Last but not least, if you want to find that harmony , it requires that you examine the vibrations you are producing on all of these levels from within as they determine what you will attract as well as what kind of ACCORD you will have with your partner.



Here are the waltzing videos - the first shows how you begin...

Learn to waltz



Now watch this one... about halfway through they repeat the dance with the count timing... the same count 1-2-3, but they are no longer in the box, this is simply what ACCORD looks and feels like when it works. And I have experienced both, and it is very spiritual when you are in harmony on the dance floor, and yet it requires both partners to do their individual parts.

They both cannot lead, nor can they switch back and forth, it is the agreement and working together that creates the ACCORD.


Advanced Waltz



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