The Secret of Love

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Love as a force in its true form, comes from the heart, the soul and the spirit, and not the mind. Often we are unaware that we are expressing what seems to be love and yet if fails to be understood. The secret is to be aware of where it is flowing from.

The mind is full of dichotomies, opposing forces, beliefs and self actualized needs that drive it to perform and produce the sounds and words that provide the ego with satisfaction. The minds purpose and position is biological. It cannot comprehend the full scale of Love and the true power and scope of Love. It has limited ability to express love. We tend to use the mind to imagine love, to write stories and songs about love, to say lovely things, and yet these are limited and often can be withdrawn if the object of our love changes in any way. One wrong word or action can invoke anger and negativity from our minds.

So as we become aware of this, it requires that we go within and feel Love in our hearts, to sense the true feelings, emotions and energies that produce and maintain love. Real, True, LOVE is unlimited, it has no requirements or criteria. We feel love in our hearts but the mind decides who we are going to share it with, and give it too. The mind also decides if that person deserves to receive it, and how often.


The greatest leap and the most difficult step in the process of learning to love is Loving ourselves.

Our teachings, cultures and religions all teach service to others, yet rarely teach us to love ourselves. To know and understand this concept and experience Loving yourself requires quiet meditation. It requires quieting the mind, Literally getting out of your mind and into your own heart. Only there will you meet and experience Love.


Love is like God (and is GOD actually) it is always there and yet we don't always tap in to it, trust it, or use it to our advantage. Love is unfailing, unchanging and fills the universe like the air we breathe.


Love can be expressed in many ways, but is most easily recognized and felt in person and doesn't require words. A hug, a touch, even a loving look can often convey much more Love than words.

Going deeper into the essence of Love it is a vibration, hence the reason we can feel it easier than hear it. The more connected to the Love in your heart you become, the higher your overall vibration tends to be.

As you spend more time in you own heart and allow the energy of love to flow you will find your life will begin to change. This is not a one time exercise. Much like physical exercise you have to do it ever day. Practice, Practice, Practice!!!

Laying One brick at a time you can build any building no matter how large. It only requires continual application of bricks and mortar. The same is true of change in your life. Don't give up after a few days if nothing feels different. Persist! it may help to look at the previous warrior post on this blog, to learn the requirements for winning.

Spending more time with like minded ( and Like vibrational) people will assist you in this journey.

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