Change Your Life

Where to begin

In talking to people about my work and studying the experiences of those around me, I see the most difficult part of change is deciding where to begin. To facilitate that change I have begun to unravel parts of the dynamics involved and the steps required to achieve clarity. Several people have told me that they have watched the “Secret” movie many times or listened to the CD’s. What I see from my perspective and having been able to produce results myself, is this, watching and listening to these books, movies and tapes is important, but in and of themselves they will never enable you to produce results.

It is much like going to Church on Sunday, it makes you feel good, but by Monday morning you are right back in life’s challenges and the good feeling is usually gone. Being spiritual and experiencing the Divine doesn’t come from going to church. Achieving change in your life cannot come from listening to tapes or movies, although they may be helpful to understand the path, the possibilities, and the concepts.

So in order to get results in your own life we have to start at the beginning –

You have to Look at the big picture. If you don’t know or understand what got you to where you are, you cannot move in a different direction for long, nor will you be able to maintain movement in any other direction. So you have to accept that you and only you put you were you are. IF and when you get that, it accomplishes two things,

One- you will now know and understand your own power, from that you will know and understand that you can and will change any part of your life you want to.

Two – there is no one else to blame, eliminating the need to project our problems on to someone else. Thereby you won’t get caught in the trap of past conditioning and trying to rationalize your lack of results as someone else’s fault.

Now that you have accepted that you have created Everything you currently have, and realize that you also can use that same power to create anything you desire, you can move to the next step.


Your thoughts, mind control – the engine of creation. Unless you can control your thoughts you are working against the most powerful force in the universe. You are literally experiencing the results of your own Holy war. This is where depression and many psychotic issues arise and feed on. This in and of itself takes a lot of practice and for sake of simplicity here I can only touch on the basics. Everything that you have or will create in the future rises out of your thoughts. Most people are unable on any level to control their thoughts (mind) for any length of time. (more than a few seconds actually) To achieve results that are satisfying you MUST learn to get control of your mind and thoughts so that you are able to direct the Force of your own creative power to achieve your desires.
Clarity – You have to learn how to achieve absolute clarity, and reach that place where your thoughts resonate with your heart.


Desire – Your new clarity now defines what you desire, and your desire has to be in harmony with your source, (if you have done your homework, you will understand this)


Emotion – Now you have to bring emotion into the process, this is the spark that ignites your desire, it is what the Divine, the Universal Energy, Your source all understand emotional energy. This signals that what you are sending out is very important to you. Be careful here as negative energy is just as powerful as positive energy, therefore your anger, sadness and fear can create with lightning speed (as many of us have experienced). As emotion is tied to your thoughts this is why it is essential to be able to control your thoughts.


Be what you want to become – the most difficult part and yet the most essential. It is very difficult to feel rich when you don’t have any money and are struggling each week, but to change your experience you have to change what you feel inside, you have to find things and thoughts and feelings that put you in to the state that you want to achieve. This creates a harmonic energy and that the law of attraction understands. As this Law is absolute, you Always attract what you are feeling, is is essential that you get this one.


Commitment – Once you have arrived here, it is essential that you commit to the changes you desire, and it has to be Absolute, 100%, you have to commit to yourself that you are going forward and will accomplish your goal and no one, and nothing will or can stop you.


Now you have experienced your will in creating your desire and dream, this step is about letting go. Not letting go of all the work you have done and it does not mean that you have to let go of having what you want. This is where you give your desire and dream to your Source, the Divine, Universal Energy. You have to trust that it will manifest in perfect timing and in the perfect way. Trusting that all is working, you cannot decide how or when it will come about. This is where many people get stuck and fail or simply decide this stuff doesn’t work. If you simply send your desire on its way and ask for it to manifest, you do pay attention to your intuition and guidance, if you are directed to take an action then do so, just don’t try to force your desire into being. Much like a flower you planted, you cannot make it grow overnight. But if you water it and feed it soon you will have your flower, and soon you will have your desire and dream.