Finding The Source

Finding The Source

In the Star Wars movies we were introduced to the saying “Be the force” and “May the force be with you”. In our daily lives we attempt to change things and people around us in order to “Feel” our connection to this energy. IN reality the “Force” is our connection to our own source energy and power, our connection to the unlimited Divine Power that is our normal state before our parents and others told us that we were worthless.

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What I am finding is that I had to learn to Love myself in all of the ways I was trying to Love others. It is a very difficult thing to learn. I see many people struggling with this one process. And yet it is the root of connecting to source and tapping into the Power that is accessible to all of us. When you Love yourself completely you will not allow others to abuse you no matter what they “SAY” about their behaviors, or allow others to justify their misuse of your love and energy. You no longer accept pain and suffering as part of life. Much like a child that you would protect with your life, you now treat yourself the same way, and begin to allow only the Loving things that make you feel good to be part of your life. Until you achieve that place, manifesting anything for yourself is difficult and requires a lot of effort. Once you have begun to Love your self regularly it becomes easier to manifest what you want.

One trap that we all fall into is expecting someone else to do this work for us. I am here to tell you it doesn’t work, been there and done that! Even in relationships we expect out partner to provide the love we need to make us feel good, and yet we don’t allow them access to our divine self. Our fears and conditioning prevent the heart from opening, and the result is tension and resistance. We find our self trapped in an endless battle of egos.


Accept that you cannot change the other person, it takes two to Tango. It is much like two contractors with two different sets of plans trying to build the same house, imagine the chaos and suffering that would result, and most likely the house would never be built, at best the whole project would get bogged down in daily arguments about whose design and plans were the right ones. A true partnership requires sitting down and working out a compromise, a new set of plans that incorporates ideas and changes from both sides, now it would be easy to build the house, and yes it may look different than either imagined, perhaps a superior design, better than either would have achieved alone. This is Synergy and the blending of two Divine sources. The Power, Beauty and Love that could be achieved from this union is beyond the imagination of most people.

If you put two locomotives on the same track, pulling together you more than double the power they have individually, if you put them on the same track traveling in different directions(towards each other) you have a disaster, the degree of that disaster depends on the distance of their perspective, if they are a large distance apart, sooner or later they will meet at some point, and end up in a pile of mangled steel.


Back to the Force, You have to be the force, one way to do that is to find your heart and what is true for you. It doesn’t mean that you cannot compromise what is important for you, it does mean that you have to know what that is, and find the best way to achieve that. If those around you cannot or do not support that and continually sabotage your mission, you have two choices, find a way to draw new plans together or move on. This is the greatest challenge to loving yourself enough. YOU and only YOU can know and can decide what that is. When you do love yourself enough you will no longer allow others to rob you of your power and feeling good, no matter what type of arrangement you currently have with them. Every choice and decision has to be based on what you Heart needs and wants in this life. No one else will give that to you. At best a partner can only share with you that piece of their own self that they choose to give you. If they are unable to Love their own self enough, they will want and need you to provide what they are lacking. IN that process they are not connected to their source and therefore cannot possibly even be aware of your needs, or be able to connect and share life in a meaningful way.

In summary to find the Source (Force) and to experience what that can provide, it requires work and consciousness. You have to Love yourself, spend time going within and experiencing the Divine within yourself. Once you can achieve that in a regular basis the world around you will change.